I can't believe it's over
This past Saturday, after a year of being on the road and in my "funny clothes" over as many weekends as possible, and with an event scheduled only an hour's drive away, I went ... nowhere. Oh, not entirely. I went to the store and got cat food and a few other minor items, but my term as lady-in-waiting to a queen is over, not to start again unless she wins the crown again by her own or another hand, or one of the other candidates we're friends with wins, and we elect to serve under another pair. There are a few on the docket for next month's tourney, for whom we'd be willing to jump back onto the treadmill.
A very satisfactory part of the final court of the reign, and the first court of the successive one, was watching a truckload of people I know and love receive awards of one sort or another. Several of them were built around the averting of disaster at an event in January. One honored a very dear man for his exceptional courtesy. A few elevated people to the title of lord or lady, a couple of new baronesses were made, and two awards even went to children allied to my clan.
The one that surprised me was the one I received. I knew, because I had discussed it wth the queen's major domo, her husband, that my husband would receive some honor from her at her final court. But both of our names were called, to be given the Queen's Cypher. The cypher is given, usually at the end of the reign, to no more than 10 people, recognizing services above and beyond the call of duty. Usually, it is a small token of some sort, bearing the queen's initial. But not this time. Our queen did different ones. The only ones I saw up close were mine and my husband's, but I'm betting the rest were equally appropriate.
She made for us, by her own hand, a set of three-decade paternosters -- the medieval form of a rosary, beads strung loosely on a cord, so they'll slide, with a tassel. When she handed them to Padraig, she apologized for their being slightly outside the time period we recreate, since we portray the early 11th century, living in Norse Ireland. But we're Christianized Norse, and in our modern lives we're Catholic, so the paternosters are truly personal tokens of appreciation, and I am proud to wear mine on my belt, or perhaps wrapped around my wrist, if that works better -- I haven't tried it, yet, since I haven't been to any events since Coronation.
I talk about my SCA life a lot, I know. That's because it's the life in which I can play at being the self I would dearly like to be, among thousands of other people doing exactly the same thing, over centuries of history. It's a lot of fun, and you can be as historically accurate as you care to be.
To learn more about it, stop by the Deer Park in Bennington some Saturday, when the gang is out hitting each other with swords, or visit http://eastkingdom.org/ online to find a group that's closer to you.